{"id":10346,"date":"2023-06-28T11:41:04","date_gmt":"2023-06-28T11:41:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mollekuqja.mk\/?p=10346"},"modified":"2025-02-27T11:42:10","modified_gmt":"2025-02-27T11:42:10","slug":"a-e-nxit-feminizmi-urrejtjen-ndaj-meshkujve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mollekuqja.mk\/mk\/a-e-nxit-feminizmi-urrejtjen-ndaj-meshkujve\/","title":{"rendered":"A e nxit feminizmi urrejtjen ndaj meshkujve?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kur lexoj reagimet e disa burrave rreth shkrimeve ose artikujve q\u00eb lidhen me feminizmin natyrsh\u00ebm m\u00eb lind pyetja\u00a0<strong>\u201cPse?\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0Pse k\u00ebto reagime negative e shpesh edhe ofenduese, p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtje q\u00eb jan\u00eb aq t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e n\u00eb dobi t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb? A ndihemi ne burrat sikur po sulmohemi prej feminizmit? A e nxit feminizmi urrejtjen ndaj meshkujve? K\u00ebsaj pyetjeje do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqem t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjem n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb artikull.<\/p>\n<p>Si fillim, duhet t\u00eb qart\u00ebsoj se cilit feminizmi i referohem. Si \u00e7do l\u00ebvizje ideologjike, edhe feminizmi i ka rrymat e veta, ca m\u00eb ekstreme e ca m\u00eb t\u00eb moderuara, mir\u00ebpo p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb k\u00ebtij artikulli un\u00eb do t\u2019i referohem atij feminizmi thelb\u00ebsor i cili synon drejt barazis\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore dhe ekonomike mes gjinive, q\u00eb e lufton diskriminimin gjinor dhe q\u00eb promovon vlera humaniste. \u00cbsht\u00eb ky ai feminiz\u00ebm i cili nxjerr n\u00eb drit\u00eb problemet e thella q\u00eb lindin nga pik\u00ebpamjet patriarkale rreth bot\u00ebs dhe q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet q\u00eb t\u2019i rregulloj\u00eb e t\u2019i \u201cpajtoj\u00eb\u201d raportet mes gjinive, p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar drejt nj\u00eb bote m\u00eb t\u00eb emancipuar, t\u00eb hapur dhe pranuese.<strong>\u00a0A ekzistojn\u00eb brenda feminizmit rryma ekstreme?<\/strong>\u00a0Po, si\u00e7 ekzistojn\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do ideologji, q\u00eb nga ato fetare, politike, shoq\u00ebrore e deri tek ato filozofike. Por a mund t\u00eb gjykohet nj\u00eb l\u00ebvizje e t\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00ebm nga nj\u00eb pakic\u00eb ekstreme? Jo, ashtu si\u00e7 s\u2019mund t\u00eb gjykohet p.sh. nj\u00eb popull i t\u00ebr\u00eb ve\u00e7 nga nj\u00eb grusht kriminel\u00ebsh brenda tij, ose nj\u00eb fe e t\u00ebr\u00eb ve\u00e7 nga disa ekstremist\u00eb. T\u00eb thuash t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jetosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb me paragjykime dhe ndasi, pa mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr ta d\u00ebgjuar dhe p\u00ebr ta kuptuar pal\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n<p>A e nxit pra ky lloj feminizmi q\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizoj un\u00eb urrejtjen ndaj meshkujve?<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Fillimisht t\u00eb shohim nj\u00eb\u00a0<strong>historik t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr<\/strong>\u00a0me k\u00ebrkesat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb l\u00ebvizjeve feminist\u00eb e nga aty mund ta kuptojm\u00eb m\u00eb thell\u00ebsisht r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e feminizmit edhe sot. Kijeni parasysh q\u00eb historiku i drejtohet m\u00eb shum\u00eb rrjedh\u00ebs s\u00eb feminizmit n\u00eb bot\u00ebn per\u00ebndimore. N\u00eb Ballkan shum\u00eb prej k\u00ebtyre zhvillimeve jan\u00eb vonuar e ndoshta s\u2019kan\u00eb arritur fare.<br \/>\nDo t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohem te tri zhvillimet kryesore.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>Vala e par\u00eb: 1848 \u2013 1920<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Vala e par\u00eb e feminizmit lindi si pasoj\u00eb e mohimit t\u00eb s\u00eb drejt\u00ebs s\u00eb vot\u00ebs s\u00eb grave dhe pamund\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb trash\u00ebguar prona. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj periudhe grat\u00eb protestonin dhe luftonin q\u00eb t\u00eb kishin t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb trash\u00ebgojn\u00eb pronat familjare dhe ta ken\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb votuar n\u00eb zgjedhje. Kjo e drejt\u00eb merret e mir\u00ebqen\u00eb sot apo jo? Mir\u00ebpo, p\u00ebrpara 100 vjet\u00ebsh grat\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri nuk e kishin k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Ata e fituan k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 1945, n\u00eb Franc\u00eb n\u00eb 1944, n\u00eb Gjermani n\u00eb 1918 dhe n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e vendeve per\u00ebndimore n\u00eb gjysm\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb shekullit XX.<\/p>\n<p><strong>(P\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb detaje, lexoni duke klikuar\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Women%27s_suffrage\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">K\u00cbTU.<\/a>)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb e drejt\u00eb aq themelore p\u00ebr \u00e7do qytetar t\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shteti, p\u00ebrpara nj\u00ebqind vjet\u00ebve nuk ekzistonte. E madje, edhe sot e k\u00ebsaj dite, edhe pse jo n\u00eb nivel ligjor, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb ballkanike shpesh shihet si e padrejt\u00eb q\u00eb grat\u00eb t\u00eb trash\u00ebgojn\u00eb pronat familjare. Por, mos t\u00eb shp\u00ebrqendrohemi. Grat\u00eb e val\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb feminizmit luftonin q\u00eb ta ken\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn ligjore p\u00ebr t\u00eb votuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb trash\u00ebguar prona e n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e vendeve t\u00eb bot\u00ebs kjo u arrit. A ishte kjo nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb e padrejt\u00eb? Nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb q\u00eb nxit urrejtje ndaj meshkujve? Mua s\u2019m\u00eb duket ashtu, por gjykojeni vet\u00eb.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>Vala e dyt\u00eb: 1963 \u2013 1980-at<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Vala e dyt\u00eb e feminizmit lindi e frym\u00ebzuar edhe nga zhvillimet n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura me L\u00ebvizjen e t\u00eb Drejtave Qytetare dhe protestave kund\u00ebr Luft\u00ebs s\u00eb Vietnamit. Feminizmi i k\u00ebsaj vale ishte m\u00eb i p\u00ebrqendruar n\u00eb thyerjen e tabuve t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme gjinore. K\u00ebrkonte largimin e diskriminimit gjinor dhe thyerjen e roleve tradicionale gjinore q\u00eb shoq\u00ebria historikisht ia ka vendosur gjinive. Jo ve\u00e7 femrave, por edhe meshkujve. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj vale promovohej nevoja q\u00eb edhe grat\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb mund\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb punojn\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb paguhen mir\u00eb, t\u00eb mos gjykohen ve\u00e7 nga gjinia e tyre, t\u00eb ken\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e arsimimit pa diskriminim, por edhe meshkujt, t\u00eb ken\u00eb mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb pranish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn familjare, t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb hapur dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb hapa m\u00eb larg ma\u00e7izmit.<\/p>\n<p>Vala e dyt\u00eb e feminizmit nxori n\u00eb pah shum\u00eb prej m\u00ebnyrave se si shoq\u00ebrit\u00eb, n\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, drejtohen kryesisht nga nj\u00eb pik\u00ebpamje patriarkale dhe diskriminuese ndaj femrave: duke i trajtuar si t\u00eb paafta p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer pun\u00eb profesionale, si me inteligjenc\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt, si t\u00eb paafta p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb tyren individuale pa mb\u00ebshtetjen e nj\u00eb burri, kur burri perceptohej si \u201cnjeriu ideal,\u201d pra nj\u00eb lloj \u201cversion perfekt\u201d e rac\u00ebs njer\u00ebzore \u2013 do t\u2019i kthehem k\u00ebsaj n\u00eb fund.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>Vala e tret\u00eb: 1990-at<\/strong><\/h5>\n<p>Vala e tret\u00eb e feminizmit lindi si reagim i grave t\u00eb pakicave amerikane q\u00eb nuk ishin t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqura me p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsimin e tyre n\u00eb rrymat e m\u00ebparshme. Vala e par\u00eb dhe e dyt\u00eb e feminizmit, vazhdoj ta kem fjal\u00ebn p\u00ebr n\u00eb Per\u00ebndim, u drejtuan kryesisht nga gra t\u00eb bardha e rrjedhimisht z\u00ebri i grave zezake dhe t\u00eb pakicave t\u00eb tjera e kishte m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohej. N\u00eb frym\u00ebn e L\u00ebvizjes Qytetare n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb, grat\u00eb e pakicave arrit\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohen m\u00eb fort dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb, ashtu si\u00e7 kishin b\u00ebr\u00eb grat\u00eb e grupeve t\u00eb tjera m\u00eb her\u00ebt, t\u00eb drejta p\u00ebr t\u00eb votuar, p\u00ebr t\u2019u shkolluar, p\u00ebr mos t\u2019u diskriminuar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb punuar at\u00eb q\u00eb duan t\u00eb punojn\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur jet\u00ebn q\u00eb ATO duan t\u00eb ken\u00eb, jo jet\u00ebn q\u00eb T\u00cb TJER\u00cb DUAN P\u00cbR ATO.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb vijim do t\u2019ju sugjeroj dy filma q\u00eb paraqesin disa prej v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsive q\u00eb grat\u00eb kan\u00eb pasur n\u00eb periudhat e hershme t\u00eb feminizmit:<strong>\u00a0<em>Little Women (2019)\u00a0<\/em>dhe\u00a0<em>Suffragette (2015)<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tash q\u00eb i kam shtruar disa prej k\u00ebrkesave themelore t\u00eb feminizmit p\u00ebrgjat\u00eb historis\u00eb, pyeteni veten: a jan\u00eb k\u00ebrkesa t\u00eb padrejta? A jan\u00eb k\u00ebrkesa t\u00eb rrezikshme? A \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrezikshme q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet q\u00eb mos t\u00eb ket\u00eb diskriminim gjinor?\u00a0<strong>A \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrezikshme q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet e drejta e trash\u00ebgimis\u00eb dhe vot\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb? A \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrezikshme q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet e drejta e p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsimit p\u00ebr 50% t\u00eb popullsis\u00eb s\u00eb bot\u00ebs? A \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjohet z\u00ebri i pakicave (si\u00e7 jemi p\u00ebr shembull ne, shqiptar\u00ebt e Maqedonis\u00eb) dhe z\u00ebri i grave t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj pakice? P\u00ebr mua, dhe p\u00ebr shum\u00eb vet\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb JO, por p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb frik\u00ebsohen prej t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs shoq\u00ebrore PO.<\/strong>\u00a0K\u00ebto jan\u00eb ndryshime t\u00eb frikshme dhe t\u00eb rrezikshme p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se e kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00eb SUNDOJN\u00cb mbi njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe t\u00eb VENDOSIN p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e tyre sikur t\u2019i ken\u00eb pron\u00eb. Ve\u00e7 k\u00ebtyre njer\u00ebzve u duket sikur feminizmi krijon urrejtje ndaj meshkujve \u2013 u duket k\u00ebshtu sepse u rrezikohet \u201crehatia\u201d q\u00eb e kan\u00eb si pasoj\u00eb e shtypjes s\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Ta kemi t\u00eb qart\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Por, p\u00ebrse u duhet feminizmi t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve \u2013 meshkujve dhe grave? U duhet sepse\u00a0<strong>parimi fillestar i feminizmit \u00ebsht\u00eb barazia p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb \u2013 jo ve\u00e7 p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, por P\u00cbR T\u00cb GJITH\u00cb.<\/strong>\u00a0Feminizmi n\u00eb thelb \u00ebsht\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm shoq\u00ebror q\u00eb i mbron si femrat, ashtu edhe meshkujt. K\u00ebrkon nga t\u00eb dyja pal\u00ebt barazi, komunikim, vler\u00ebsim dhe respektim. K\u00ebrkon ndarjen e monopoleve shoq\u00ebrore q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb d\u00ebm t\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebs a tjetr\u00ebs pal\u00eb.<\/p>\n<h5>Le mos t\u00eb kemi ngat\u00ebrresa \u2013 bota moderne i b\u00ebn shtypje t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme meshkujve.<\/h5>\n<p>Meshkujt duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb me \u00e7dolloj kushti, duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb mbajt\u00ebsit e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb shum\u00eb para, duhet t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb \u00e7dolloj pune, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me \u00e7do problem, duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb eg\u00ebr, duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb, nuk duhet kurr\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb jemi \u201cnjer\u00ebzit ideal\u00eb,\u201d kurr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb hapur, kurr\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb ndihen mir\u00eb, nuk duhet, duhet, nuk duhet&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u201cduhet\u201d shpesh na l\u00eb t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm. Na l\u00eb t\u00eb paaft\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duam, at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojm\u00eb, at\u00eb q\u00eb na shtyn p\u00ebrpara. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga arsyet kryesore p\u00ebrse meshkujt kan\u00eb 3 her\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb gjasa q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb vet\u00ebvrasje sesa grat\u00eb, ose p\u00ebrse var\u00ebsia ndaj drogave dhe alkoolit \u00ebsht\u00eb 2 her\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe te meshkujt sesa te femrat.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb,<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>rritemi me iden\u00eb se<strong>\u00a0\u201cnuk duhet t\u00eb qajm\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb,\u201d \u201cnuk duhet t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb dob\u00ebsi,\u201d \u201cduhet t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb papreksh\u00ebm, t\u00eb pathyesh\u00ebm.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong>K\u00ebto shprehje ndoshta na japin nj\u00eb lloj \u201cfuqie\u201d t\u00eb p\u00ebrkohshme, por n\u00eb fund, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi njer\u00ebz \u2013 t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi probleme q\u00eb na duken t\u00eb pazgjidhshme, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi q\u00eb na duken t\u00eb pakalueshme, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi emocione dhe ndjenja q\u00eb s\u2019dim\u00eb si t\u2019i kuptojm\u00eb, dhe kur na godasin fatkeq\u00ebsi, kur ndihemi t\u00eb pafuqish\u00ebm, kur mendojm\u00eb se ve\u00e7 ne duhet t\u00eb zgjidhim \u00e7do problem, ca her\u00eb mund t\u00eb na duket sikur zgjidhja e vetme \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht t\u2019i japim fund&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Nuk po b\u00ebj thirrje p\u00ebr viktimizim. Viktimizimi nuk sjell p\u00ebrparim. Ajo q\u00eb them un\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb\u00a0<strong>si meshkuj, duhet t\u2019i shohim problemet tona n\u00eb sy, t\u2019i pranojm\u00eb dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb hapa p\u00ebr t\u2019i zgjidhur duke u p\u00ebrpjekur q\u00eb t\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunojm\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndajm\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi me partner\u00ebt, t\u00eb dashurat, familjen, shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb.<\/strong>\u00a0N\u00ebse ti q\u00eb e lexon k\u00ebt\u00eb artikull je burr\u00eb, kur \u00ebsht\u00eb hera e fundit q\u00eb ke qen\u00eb n\u00eb psikolog p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar problematika tuajat?<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebto t\u00eb dh\u00ebna nuk jan\u00eb rast\u00ebsi \u2013 jan\u00eb produkt i nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie patriarkale q\u00eb ia vesh \u00e7do p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi meshkujve. I nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie q\u00eb i vesh pritshm\u00ebri diskriminuese meshkujve, ashtu si\u00e7 i vesh femrave. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm feminizmi.<\/p>\n<p>Feminizmi nuk sjell urrejtje ndaj meshkujve. N\u00eb thelb,\u00a0<strong>feminizmi k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, t\u00eb hapur dhe pa paragjykime dhe diskriminime.\u00a0<\/strong>Feminizmi k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri NJER\u00cbZORE \u2013 ku t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u2019i meritojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb i meritojn\u00eb, t\u2019i arrijn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u2019i arrijn\u00eb, t\u00eb mbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb barabart\u00eb, ta drejtojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn ashtu si\u00e7 ata duan ta drejtojn\u00eb, jo nga pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, por nga pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb q\u00eb secili ia v\u00eb vetes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Feminizmi k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri p\u00ebr T\u00cb GJITH\u00cb \u2013 a \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u k\u00ebrkuar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>KY SHKRIM \u00cbSHT\u00cb SHKRUAR EKSKLUZIVISHT P\u00cbR\u00a0<a href=\"\/mk\/www.mollekuqja.html\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">MOLLEKUQJA.MK<\/a>. 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