{"id":10962,"date":"2025-12-31T11:18:08","date_gmt":"2025-12-31T11:18:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mollekuqja.mk\/?p=10962"},"modified":"2025-12-31T17:27:33","modified_gmt":"2025-12-31T17:27:33","slug":"e-dashur-grua-si-je-nje-leter-fundviti-asaj-gruaje-per-te-cilen-thone-ka-ndryshuar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mollekuqja.mk\/en\/e-dashur-grua-si-je-nje-leter-fundviti-asaj-gruaje-per-te-cilen-thone-ka-ndryshuar\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear woman, how are you? An end-of-year letter to the woman they say \u201chas changed.\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She has not changed, but evaporated, disappeared completely, yet you have no eyes to see it. A poem says, \u201cI stepped out onto the balcony of myself,\u201d and there she cries without stopping.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dear woman,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before the year closes with fireworks, raised toasts, and ready-made wishes you will receive without anything of substance in them, I am addressing you with a few questions no one asks you. No one asks them, not because they are unimportant, but because they are difficult. Because they require you to stop and turn toward yourself. Because they ask for the truth, not the deception you have made a way of life by not recognizing that \u201cother\u201d within you who has taken up all the space and pushed you out onto the balcony.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How are you, first of all?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How are you in that space where you are useful to everyone except yourself?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How many times has your soul taken the shape of a question mark, while your body has continued to rise vertically every morning? You went to work, fulfilled obligations, were a mother, a daughter, a partner, a professional, a friend, and no one stopped to ask whether you were truly managing?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is anyone asking you how you\u2019re managing?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This question is not asked, because a woman is assumed to always know how to manage?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know, only your hunched soul knows this, the one no one sees because it does not make a cracking sound each time it breaks. The one that grows tired in silence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Has anyone ever asked you how many times you were forced to remain silent to preserve \u201cpeace\u201d?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you felt that every word of yours would seem like rubble that sweeps everything away. And you chose to ask yourself: should I speak or should I remain silent?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And almost always, you remained silent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How many times have you lowered your voice so they wouldn\u2019t call you \u201cargumentative,\u201d \u201cemotional,\u201d \u201cdifficult\u201d?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your honesty gets you labelled a \u201cdrama queen,\u201d while your patience is expected, like an obligation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How many dreams have you postponed \u201cfor later\u201d?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because the children were more urgent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because the family was more urgent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because work was more urgent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because everything was more urgent than you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But who noticed your invisible exhaustion?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The work that doesn\u2019t appear anywhere in contracts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The care that is unpaid.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The patience you inherited from the \u201cold school.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who ever asked you: are you tired?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What are you losing on this long journey of fulfilling expectations?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Which version of yourself have you become, and which version did you abandon along the way?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How many truths do you swallow every day so as not to hurt others\u2019 egos?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How many times have you shrunk yourself so that another could feel more important?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And your body, why don\u2019t you care for it the way it deserves?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you know that the body is the most honest mirror of your inner world?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The pains you push aside, the fatigue you ignore, the weight you carry, they all speak of things you did not have time to express in words.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why don\u2019t you speak?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why don\u2019t you complain?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you were taught that a woman who complains is ungrateful, because she has everything and is never satisfied?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because some think that to eat and drink means to be fulfilled?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When was the last time you felt free inside your own skin?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Out of the 365 days of the year, how many days were truly yours?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did anyone ask you whether you are happy?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or is it enough that everything around you doesn\u2019t collapse for it to seem like it\u2019s working?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel alive, or are you just breathing?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This end of year, I am not wishing you patience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am not wishing you sacrifice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nor will I tell you \u201cstay strong,\u201d because you have been strong for far too long.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish you the courage to write the honest answers to these questions in a notebook. To read them. To accept them. And if necessary, to burn them. Then to begin again.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Write new questions, but this time on the mirror with the fiery lipstick that can\u2019t wait to be applied along your lips:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who am I?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What do I truly want?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can I gain the things I want?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because no one will gift them to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But you also do not need to ask permission to claim the things that naturally belong to you, like the air you breathe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is time to return to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I truly hope you find yourself again, because you have been missed for a long time by that wonderful person you are and whom you see from afar. This \u201cother\u201d that runs your life must be discarded. Take the reins of your life in your hands and \u201crun girl, run.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish you a year in which you will not diminish under burdens you take on without anyone asking you to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish you to go out, to socialize, to take up space in the world, where you belong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I wish you to shine as only you know how, regardless of circumstances, because everything passes and everything has a solution.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And yes, it is in your hands. It is enough to put on the right heels and you can conquer the world, says Merlin.<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><strong><em>This material is completely or partly financed by UK International Development and The Kvinna till Kvinna Foundation, that do not necessarily agree with the opinions expressed within. 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